Hello,

I am hoping that I will still be accepted here as I am the one who had to file for divorce. I'm finding that generally the one who did not file is thought of as the victim but that is not always true. I need a support system, too, even though I was the one who had to file (after 20 years of fighting to keep it going) and I am hoping there are some here who can understand and relate.

Looking forward to the interaction with y'all.

There is more to divorce than the paperwork. I am glad to meet you.

BJ